“It’s as if I’m sewn shut.”
“It feels like even a finger would be too much.”
“My partner can barely get inside me before it hurts too much to carry on.”
They don’t exactly read like the start of a raunchy bedtime book, do they?
What Do I Do About It?!
Humans are good at finding solutions. But, some problems have too many facets for there to be a simple solution, and no matter how much doctors might press horse pee on us (yes, really), or shrug their shoulders, it isn’t the answer we need. We’re as guilty as anyone as preaching healthy living and top tips, because, ultimately, those things do matter. It does matter that you eat well, and that you keep yourself clean, but you can stuff yourself with kale and apples till you’re blue in the face and it still won’t fix everything.
The human body is complicated, and it is closely tied to the psyche. Menopause is a key time in a woman’s life that often holds as much emotional and mental adjustment as it does physical. We understand that some changes in diet and supplementation can be helpful, but they won’t necessarily fix dryness or a waning libido.
So, today, we are going to do a little penetrative work, and help decode why it is that penetration can be so painful, and what you can do about it.
Why is Penetration Painful?
There are several reasons why penetration is painful;
So, how do I fix it?
Fortunately, there are ways to help your body and your brain overcome the stranglehold of penetrative pain.
Remember, penetration is your prerogative. There are plenty of other ways to be sexually intimate with a partner, from massage to oral sex, which can be a lot more comfortable and just as enjoyable. (And there are plenty of toys to help in that area too!)
Let go of the notion of penetration as the ‘home run’ of sex and intimacy, and allow yourself and your body some time to heal and to explore other possibilities. Here at Silky Peach, we’re here to answer any questions you might have and help you in your journey to a happier vagina!
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Disclaimer: The information provided above is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Statements made have not been evaluated by the FDA nor are they intended to treat or diagnose. Any health concerns should be discussed and evaluated by your primary health care provider.
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Disclaimer: The information provided above is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Statements made have not been evaluated by the FDA nor are they intended to treat or diagnose. Any health concerns should be discussed and evaluated by your primary health care provider.