We’re not talking about ‘Dirty Talk’, we’re talking about how to talk to your partner about your sex life, lack of, or changing sensations that affect the practicalities of everything from first base through fourth! Talking about sex is a tricky topic, and, even for the most liberated person, bringing up that your partner might not be doing it for you isn't exactly easy. Looking for even more of a challenge? Telling your long-term partner that, all of a sudden, the stuff they used to do isn't working anymore.
How Do We Communicate About Intimacy?
As we age, both our mindset and our body changes; that thing that you used to enjoy, might now be pretty painful. Your new idea of romantic intimacy might be less lingerie-ripped-off and more sensuous massage. Even in the most open and stable relationship, it can be hard to discuss this because you are changing the dynamic, which can be scary. Additionally, when we bring up sex, we also are bringing up a lot of things that sex represents, like love, intimacy, connection, and... the dreaded ego.
Whilst it is great to understand the psychology behind why we struggle to talk about topics such as sex, these five practical tips will help you to actually make positive changes to your sex life, allowing you to enjoy that facet of your sexuality for years to come.
Five Sex Talk Tips:
Ultimately, the key aspect to talking to your partner is being able to let go of expectations, and let the dialogue flow. Communication relies on listening, honesty, and vulnerability, all of things that can be practiced and developed to ensure that you and your partner are living your best lives (and enjoying your best sex!).
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Disclaimer: The information provided above is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Statements made have not been evaluated by the FDA nor are they intended to treat or diagnose. Any health concerns should be discussed and evaluated by your primary health care provider.
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Disclaimer: The information provided above is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Statements made have not been evaluated by the FDA nor are they intended to treat or diagnose. Any health concerns should be discussed and evaluated by your primary health care provider.