What is A Kegel?

The Mayo Clinic has the most in-depth article about 'how to do/what is a kegel' if you are interested; in a nutshell, 'kegel' is a name for an exercise — that is, small contractions of your pelvic floor muscles (same as squat, deadlift, etc.).

To do Kegels, imagine you are sitting on a marble and tighten your pelvic muscles as if you're lifting the marble. Try it for three seconds at a time, then relax for a count of three.

Ok, but, how do I even know it's working....?

You can test if your kegels are working by seeing whether you can stop your pee mid-stream. Buuuuuut... if you want to get fancy (and tone your pelvic floor at the same time) there are some pretty nifty gadgets on the market to do so. We covered this a little in our blog on sex toys, with regard to things like Ben Wa Balls, but there are now devices (rather than toys) that you insert vaginally that are paired with an app.

These can also support overall pelvic floor tone and contribute to a sense of confidence and well-being. For more intensive pelvic floor support, a pelvic floor physiotherapist can recommend options that are right for your needs.

It's Not All About the Kegel

Whilst kegels are great, and it is important to learn how to do them correctly - kegels aren't the only tool in a pelvic floor toolbox. In fact, it is important to do several other things as well as kegels. These include strengthening surrounding muscles (like glutes, core, and the other small muscles in the pelvic floor structure), AND - (this is key). - stretching. Sometimes, pelvic floor dysfunction can arise from when muscles are too tight and not too loose. If you aren't sure, it is always a good idea to see a Pelvic Floor Therapist!

The Workout

Bridge - Lie flat on your back, knees bent and feet flat. Push down through your feet to lift your bum. You can do 3 sets of 10, and a longer hold.

Supine Butterfly - Lie on your back with the soles of your feet together and let your knees drop open. You can support under the outside edge of the knees.

Pelvic Thrust - Place your shoulder blades on a firm surface (like a chair/table), so that your upper body is lifted. Feet are flat, about hip width apart. Let your hips dip slightly, then lift to a tabletop. You can do this weighted, but be aware of how your back feels. Do 3 sets of 10.

Weighted Squats - Place feet a little wider than hip width. You can start unweighted. As you stand up, imagine a string being pulled from your vagina up through your head, so squeeze like a kegel at the bottom of the squat, THEN lift to stand. Start with 3 sets of 10, and gradually increase to 3 sets of 20.

Clamshells - Lie on your side, prop your head up, and slightly bend your legs keeping your knees together. If you have a light resistance band, you can loop it just above the knees. Keep the ankles together, and open the knees like a clamshell. Do 3 sets of 10.

Supine Figure 4 - Lying on your back, bend one knee (lets start with our left), then place the right ankle at over the left knee, so the right knee is bent at a 45 degree angle. You can remain here, or bring the left knee towards your chest and reach for the left shin for more intensity.

Pelvic Tilts/Clocks - Lie on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat. This Pilates move requires you to imagine your pelvis like a bowl. As you lie flat think about scooping the pelvic bowl in toward the belly button, then return to flat. For clocks, think about moving in a circle with your pelvis, slowly moving around the numbers of the clock but keeping the pelvis level. Do 3 sets of 10, of each.

Adductor Ball Squeeze - Lying flat on your back, knees bent and feet flat, place a slightly soft ball (soccer ball etc.) between your knees. Squeeze, engaging the kegel muscles and the adductors; do 3 sets of 20.

Dainty Toe Taps - Lie flat on your back, then lift your knees and feet to 90 degrees. So, your feet are lifted, and knees are directly above hips, and feet are out straight. Tap each toe to the ground, slowly and carefully, then return to 90 degrees. Slow and steady is key, and be sure to engage your core and keep your pelvis flat (don't hyperextend and let the low back lift). Do 3 sets of 10, work towards 3 sets of 20.

Kegel Cat Cows - Finish up with a classic — get onto all fours, knees beneath hips and hands beneath shoulders. Arch and flex your back, taking nice deep breaths, and then performing a longer hold kegel on the arch (cat) and releasing on the cow. Think about doing 1 set of 10, but really squeezing and holding that kegel for several seconds!

One Last Note

With all these moves, be sure to engage your pelvic floor, using kegels, and pulling the belly button in towards the spine. The video linked here features several of these moves if you are looking for more instruction. They are all available via ACE fitness videos, or just a google search if you are unsure on how a move looks!

The Role of Vaginal Health & Tone

Many factors can affect your pelvic floor muscles, including pregnancy, childbirth, surgery, aging, excessive straining from constipation or chronic coughing, and being overweight.

Kegel exercises are beneficial for most women and are a great addition to any wellness routine, especially during and after major life transitions like pregnancy or menopause.

Remember, strong core muscles are also important — especially for women who have carried children. Core strength and pelvic floor health are closely connected, and rebuilding core strength after pregnancy can support both posture and pelvic floor function. Even if your kids are all grown up, these exercises are great to reengage and strengthen those muscles!

Now, who's ready to get their kegel on?!